Today, we're excited to bring the second of the four Elements of Desire: Luxury. According to sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart, creator of the Elements of Desire: At times, we may move into our heads during sex, away from our bodies. In these moments, in order to continue, we depend on fantasies, outside validation, programmed images of sexiness, objectification, and goal oriented sex. Male sexuality is often reduced and over simplified as a biological imperative to spread seed or to “get off.” This explanation does not acknowledge the relational components that are, the foundation, the underlying motivators for sex. The very nature of gay sex is antithetical to the biological model alone, because it is rooted in identity, a social construct. At the same time, as men, we often lack a vocabulary to describe our experiences of ourselves emotionally, sexually, and otherwise. We may lean into routines, our “winning formulas,” compartmentalization, or even blaming our partners for a sen
LAMAN WEB INI MENGANDUNGI BAHAN SEKSUAL YANG EKSPLISIT (termasuk bahan pornografi). Anda mesti sekurang-kurangnya lapan belas (18) tahun untuk menggunakan Laman Web ini, melainkan umur majoriti dalam bidang kuasa anda lebih daripada lapan belas (18) tahun, dalam hal ini anda mesti sekurang-kurangnya umur majoriti dalam bidang kuasa. Penggunaan Laman Web ini tidak dibenarkan jika dilarang oleh undang-undang. Laman Web ini juga memerlukan penggunaan kuki. Maklumat lanjut mengenai kuki kami boleh didapati di Dasar Privasi dan Dasar Kuki.
DENGAN MEMASUKI KE LAMAN WEB INI DAN MENGGUNAKAN LAMAN WEB INI, ANDA SETUJU DENGAN DASAR PRIVASI KAMI DAN PENGGUNAAN KUKI.